Thank you so much for joining me this month. I hope that you’ve enjoyed yourself, learned some new things about
your husband and some ways that you can pursue him with ease and on a daily basis. I pray that your husband has started to notice your little ways of pursuing him {if he hasn’t, ask him!}
The most important thing is to remember to keep at it! Little things every day and once in a while a bigger something to let them know you love them. I’m praying for all of you that have put this plan into action; that your husbands will not only notice, but reciprocate, that your marriages will strengthen!
Originally I said I was doing this series as much for my marriage as anyone else, and I did. My husband knew I was doing this, because we were both trying to make a point of intentionally pursuing each other. It was helpful because I was able to sit him down and ask him how he felt the whole thing went.
He enjoyed it. Not because I was catering to him or lavishing him with gifts, but because to him, being pursued, he knew that I do want him and love him, that my showing him love {in a variety of ways} helped him to remember that he is loved, and that I am on his side, willing to fight for him {and with him, if necessary}.
All in all both of us felt that it was very good for our marriage to me intentional in doing and loving each other. The thing that helped us both to feel more loved was praying for and over each other, as well as little notes left here and there, but prayer was the big one. Knowing that the other was interceding for us, that we were making ourselves vulnerable to the other by praying over them was incredible.
For us, pursuing each other HAS to be a way of life, there is no other option. Going forward we will continue to do what we can to prioritize and pursue each other and our marriage.
Going forward for you: What does that look like? What does that mean? I recommend keep trying new and different things, have the hard talks with your husband, keep praying, keep doing the little things. There is one website that has becoming an invaluable source of information and ideas for me: The Dating Divas! Seriously, check out their site: There are tons of ideas and printables and all sorts of things to help you pursue your husband. I could write a whole website on it, but they already have, so be sure to check it out.
Keep in touch! I’d love to hear how things are going for you and your husband! If you look down a bit further I put together a freebie for you to enjoy!
Don’t forget you can find the post with ALL of the 31 posts from this series HERE, so be sure to pin it to refer back to!
Download your MARRIAGE QUOTE FREEBIE HERE
as a Thank You from me to you!
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