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Have a Little Compassion

There’s a new member of our family that I am so excited to introduce to you: Dorothy! No, you didn’t miss anything. In November, as part of Avelyn’s turning 6 she chose a little girl in Africa to sponsor through Compassion International. I often think that most people have heard of Compassion until I start talking about it and they look at me like I have 6 heads.

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I’ve been familiar with Compassion for the past 5 or so years, and have really wanted to sponsor a child, but it just wasn’t feasible. We had wanted to do it at a point when our children can be involved in correspondence and can understand what it is and why we do it. This year Matthew decided it was the year. I can’t tell you how much my heart soared when he said those words!

Compassion Child

Dorothy’s birthday is in the middle of February, and as I was talking to Avie about drawing a picture that we could send to her, she had mentioned something about dresses. I said that more than likely Dorothy only had 1 maybe 2 dresses to wear. Avelyn got a devastated look in her eyes and I asked what was wrong, “Mommy, could I send her some of my dresses?” I explained that we can’t mail her things like a dress, but we can pray and ask that God would provide for her through our sponsorship. {I love Avelyn’s heart for others!}

So what IS Compassion International?

The Everett Swanson Evangelistic Association was founded in 1952 by The Reverend Everett Swanson to help children orphaned by war in South Korea. He traveled there to preach the gospel to the troops of the army but during his visit he saw children orphaned by the war. In 1953, he began to raise funds and the next year he developed sponsorship programs to help support orphans for a few dollars a month.[4] The name of the association changed to Compassion in 1963, inspired by Jesus‘ words “I have compassion on the multitude. I will not send them away hungry” (Matthew 15.32).
-from Wikipedia

The whole premise of Compassion is to not just provide for the physical needs of a child, but also their spiritual needs. While they are given the opportunity to attend school, the blessing of safety and being provided for, they are also learning the most important truth…Jesus. They are being cared for not just temporally but eternally.

The thing I love about Compassion, besides all the wonderful things they do, is that this isn’t just about having your credit card auto-charged every month and forgetting about it, forgetting about a child. The wonderful thing is how Compassion encourages their sponsors to write to their child, to visit them {if possible}, to actually build a RELATIONSHIP with them. We try and email at least 2 letters a month to Dorothy. It’s so easy: They have a form you can fill out on the website and upload pictures to you and away it goes!  That’s it!

At different conferences and events over the years I’ve had several opportunities to talk to the people manning the Compassion tables and they are always such a joy to spend time with. Just recently I was speaking to a grandmother who sponsored a child for each of her grandchildren, then takes the time with each of them to write their sponsored child. Her goal is to take each of her grandchildren to meet the child they sponsor. She’s already been to the jungles of South America with two of her grandchildren.img029

April 24th is Compassion Sunday, but you can sponsor a child any day, anywhere in the world through Compassion’s website at Compassion.com. They give you wonderful search options of countries, age, gender, and most importantly for children who have been waiting the longest {as Dorothy was}.

I know we all remember the over emotional commercials to sponsor a child through different organizations; that for just over a $1 a day you can give a child hope, but it’s true. For $1.25 a day you can give a child hope, you can give them a future, you can give them the food and things they need now, and you can share with them the love and Salvation that only Jesus can give.

Henry, James and Elanor 4 Years Old

It’s hard to believe these little tiny babies of mine are huge, strapping 4 year olds!

DSC_0764editHenry

  • Weighs 43lbs
  • Height 42″
  • Wearing a size 12/13 in shoes and solidly in a 5 for clothing
  • Loves everyone, but especially his littlest brother, Peter…he’s completely enamored with him. Always saying how adorable he is and asking if we can keep him. He is always calling him “Pickles”
  • Knows all his colors, some of his shapes, and learning his letters
  • Loves telling jokes that make absolutely no sense
  • Goes from telling me that I’m a mean mommy {or daddy} and he doesn’t like me to telling me I’m a good mommy and he loves me
  • He loves playing with his trains and tracks
  • Loves sneaking off with ipads and iphones

Questions:

  1. Favorite color: Blue
  2. Favorite toy: Legos
  3. Favorite fruit: Chocolate Chips {then Bananas}
  4. Favorite show: Lightning McQueen
  5. Favorite clothes: Buzz Costume, Pirate Jammies
  6. Favorite computer game: Lion Guard
  7. Favorite game: Legos
  8. Favorite sport: Soccer
  9. Favorite snack: Fruit strip
  10. Favorite animal: Hippo
  11. Favorite song: Lightning McQueen {no idea}
  12. Favorite book: Cars and Mater
  13. Favorite cereal: Crispix
  14. Favorite outside game: Mommies and Daddies
  15. Favorite drink: Milk
  16. Favorite breakfast: Crepes
  17. Favorite lunch: Mac and Cheese
  18. Favorite dinner: Pasta
  19. Favorite holiday: Halloween and Christmas
  20. Best friend: Peter
  21. Favorite thing to take to bed: Oma blanket and Mommy’s Oma blanket
  22. When he grows up he wants to be a boy and play soccer

James

  • Weighs 47lbs
  • Height 45″
  • Wearing a size 1 in shoes, 5/6 in clothes
  • Now wearing glasses
  • Takes 30 minutes to say goodbye to anyone, he needs to make sure he gets all his hugs and kisses in
  • Knows his colors, most shapes, and learning his letters.
  • Has a fiery temper
  • Loves playing computer games
  • He’s starting to show some interest in “school” with Avie
  • He does get frustrated when you can’t understand him, but his thoughts and word choices are incredible and elaborate
  • He has a very particular bed time routine every night: The door stays open, the lights stay on, he sleeps for only 2 minutes and we have to tell everyone not to wake him up.

Questions:

  1. Favorite color: Orange
  2. Favorite toy: Robot
  3. Favorite fruit: Orange
  4. Favorite show: Despicable Me
  5. Favorite clothes: Lightning McQueen jammies that Baba made
  6. Favorite computer game: Lion Guard
  7. Favorite game: ABCMouse.com
  8. Favorite sport: Baseball
  9. Favorite snack: Fruit strip
  10. Favorite animal: Tiger
  11. Favorite song: Jesus Loves Me
  12. Favorite book: Pirates Don’t Take Baths and Oscar and Tilly
  13. Favorite cereal: PopPaul’s with strawberries
  14. Favorite outside game: Tag
  15. Favorite drink: Healthy Drink {Kombucha}
  16. Favorite breakfast: Egg in a frame
  17. Favorite lunch: Liverwurst sandwich
  18. Favorite dinner: Chicken
  19. Favorite holiday: Thanksgiving {I think Avelyn was coaching on this one}
  20. Best friend: Our neighbors–Esther and Anthony {although they barely ever see them}
  21. Favorite thing to take to bed: Oma blanket and mommy quilt
  22. When he grows up he wants to be a daddy on a boat.

Elanor

  • Weighs 37lbs
  • Height 40.5″
  • Wearing a size 12 in shoes, 4/5 in clothes
  • Knows her colors, shapes and learning her letters
  • Such a daddy’s girl…most days I hear all day long “When’s my daddy coming home? I miss him so much”
  • Knows how to work her tears and meltdowns
  • Very much enamored with Avie, until Avie doesn’t do what Ellie wants
  • She has to make sure she has the right blanket by smelling it…that’s right…smell
  • She’s a whiner and has a scream to rival a bansidhe
  • Loves playing with her dolls
  • Must have everything PINK

Questions:

  1. Favorite color: Pink
  2. Favorite toy: My Little Pony
  3. Favorite fruit: Cheddar Bunnies {then strawberries, bananas etc}
  4. Favorite show: Cinderella
  5. Favorite clothes: Princess Dress
  6. Favorite computer game: Palace Pets
  7. Favorite game: Palace Pets
  8. Favorite sport: Baseball
  9. Favorite snack: Cheddar Bunnies
  10. Favorite animal: Zebra
  11. Favorite song: Feel the Light from Home
  12. Favorite book: Paddington and Dragons Love Tacos
  13. Favorite cereal: Letter Cereal
  14. Favorite outside game: Bouncy {Trampoline}
  15. Favorite drink: Milk
  16. Favorite breakfast: Pancakes
  17. Favorite lunch: Mac and Cheese
  18. Favorite dinner: Spaghetti
  19. Favorite holiday: Holiday Sauce {Halloween and Easter}
  20. Best friend: Avie
  21. Favorite thing to take to bed: Oma blanket and hot water in her sippy
  22. When she grows up she wants to be a princess in a tower.

All three kids

  • They’re all finally potty-trained for day and night {Henry we finally just had to take away the night time diaper, because he was dry every morning, but if I didn’t get him changed fast enough he’d poop and then say he needed a shower}.
  • They’re all in big kid beds: The boys have bunk beds and the girls have bunk beds.
  • No more naps….which is killing me.
  • They’re actually starting to listen more and help with things around the house. Elanor in particular loves helping.
  • They’re all obsessed with having a loose tooth.
  • They DON’T STOP EATING!